There is a public debate on the definition of marriage. Theoretically, marriage as an institution was founded in and traditionally practiced as a religious function of society. Realistically, marriage is a legal issue binding finance and property between two people who want to share the rest of their life. I found two specific ways that we as Americans, define this word. First, marriage is a legal union between two people who share intimacy and life. Second, which is an extension from the first description, is a union between husband and wife, or more specifically, man and woman. However, I think that our current definition of marriage should progress into a new way of thinking which would allow gay marriage.
Right now, a vocal segment of our society claims that family values would be hurt by legalizing gay marriage. I am not exactly sure if our country has ever lived up to its rhetoric of family values. In 2000, 2,355,005 marriages took place. That same year, 957,200 divorces also took place ( www.divorceform.org). That makes the divorce rate 40% in that year alone. Almost five years later, I wonder if this percentage has grown. If we are trying to define marriage as an intimate relationship that is supposed to last until the partners die, then I think we need a new definition.
As I was browsing the internet for information on divorce in America, I found a very interesting website that might shock the very people that believe the institution of marriage is fine the way it is. The address is www.divorcemag.com and believe it or not, it is a magazine strictly about divorce. This magazine is in circulation throughout our country and posted on the internet. People are looking to this periodical for advice, tips for dating after divorce, how to split the household items with one's ex and even how to manage shared custody. In the year 2002, there were 11.72 million single parents in our country (www.divorcemag.com). Now, looking at the number of single parents, I guess it's not that shocking that we have produced a magazine that targets such a problem.
Given the number of divorces that we face every year, we cannot insure success. If marriage is supposed to be an instituition of family values, then I think that marriage should be a legal right between two people who want to share their life. I see no reason for our government to deny homosexuals the civil right of marriage due to a narrow, outdated definition of family values.